25 Most common relationship problems

rs_560x420-150123083200-560.Justin-Bieber-Kendall-Jenner-Hailee-Baldwin.jl.0123151. Affairs / infidelity / cheating (see: Surviving Infidelity and Infidelity Warning Signs). This includes emotional infidelity, one-night stands, internet relationships (including ‘sexting’), long- and short-term affairs and financial infidelity

  1. Sexual Problems, particularly loss of libido (Male and Female) and including questions around your gender (bisexual?), or your partner’s gender (bisexual?)

  2. Significant differences in core values and beliefs

  3. Life stages – you have ‘outgrown’ each other or have ‘changed’ significantly for whatever reason

  4. Traumatic and/or Life-Changing Events (see also: Brain Injury Symptoms)

  5. Responses to prolonged periods of Stress, such as Work-Related Stress, long-term illness, mental health issues, Financial Problems, problems with the children, infertility and many more

  6. Bored in or with Your Relationship or …

  7. Being Bored with ‘Life’

  8. Treating each other, or feeling as though you are being treated, with contempt (see: Relationship Communication)

  9. Domestic violence, which includes verbal as well as physical abuse: THE most serious relationship problem. See Signs of An Abusive Relationship.

  10. Knowing you should not have got married in the first place! (See my relationship or marriage compatibility test: Stay or Walk Away)

  11. Lack of responsibility regarding finances, children (see: Children in the Middle), health and many other issues

  12. Unrealistic Expectations – still thinking your partner / spouse is the princess / knight and not seeing the ‘real’ human being

  13. Addictions – substance abuse (see: Alcoholism Stages)

  14. Excessive reliance on social media, at the cost of the relationship (see: Facebook Problems)

  15. Lack of support during particularly difficult times from people that matter to you

  16. Manipulation or over-involvement in your relationships with family or friends

  17. Lack of communication about important matters

  18. Poor division of and / or one-sided lack of responsibility for chores and tasks. It is not always women who complain about this relationship problem!

  19. Perceived lack of concern, care and consideration / attentiveness: feeling the relationship is one-sided is a big one!

  20. Significant personal disappointments and traumas that lead to a change in relationship dynamics (see: Your Partner in Prison)

  21. Long term depression or other mental health issues suffered by one partner or both (see: Natural Depression Treatments)

  22. Significant differences in opinion on how to discipline / deal with the children (see: How Divorce Affects Children and Children in the Middle)

  23. Long-term stress, particularly when not taking responsibility for doing something positive to address the cause, or about learning to handle it if it cannot be changed (see: Stress and Your Relationship and Adrenal Fatigue Symptoms)

  24. An unsupportive partner during pregnancy and/or significant problems after the birth your baby. See: How to Deal with a Birth Trauma and Before You Consider Suing for a Birth Trauma




porn ruin your sex life $ brain?

by watching porn one become dissatisfied with their regular partner.

porn can dull your ability to lease and be pleased by, your partner.

too much stimulation of the brains may dangerous .

sex and mating circuitry obs-tracts the mammalian instinct toward monogamy.

why we spent time and money to make database of pleasure.it is a called Coolidge effect .

because of porn,man and female jerk off to images than have sex that’s the problem .

dopa mine is the hook in all addictions.

too much stimulation actually numb the pleasure response of your brain.

the reality is that neuro chemically induced dissatisfaction deep in the brain is urging you to seek more stimulation.

libido thermostat has been readjusted , you feel restless more of the time.this effect is called “tolerance”.

addiction process at work in the brain.

by watching porn we are getting into “copulatory impotence”. means you for porn not to partner.

intercourse has more beneficial than masturbation

daily warm touch between couples benefits men by lowering blood pressure.

fantasy based on pornography create stress, hollow mind and unstable & unsatisfying.

your brain always urges you to focus on the option that releases the most dopa-mine. it doesn’t care what best for your stress and for health.


brain responds from information  received from the eye quicker than from any other source.

internet? problem now days

whenever we use Internet 99% must watch porn and end with porn.

porn is become synonymous for internet for all now. this is a problem what we do? 

today internet situation .

pornography eats away at the inner soul.

pornography leaves you with self depression, frustration, discouragement , hopeless, hollowed and fatigue.

todays young people situation—

“whenever i log into the internet i must view porn.”

james olds(psychologist)

discovered that it is of addiction , our pleasure centers(addiction views)are housed in the mid-brain

or limbic system  , which is not under the direct control of the conscious mind or the frontal cortex.

frontal cortex keeping us active and this part function at the subconscious level that’s why we mostly complaining about night fall mostly in man.

when one views pornography there are a whole cocktail of pleasure chemicals released in the limbic regions

of the brain.

such chemicals as dopamine,norepinephrine, oxytocin, and serotonin bind the brain to seek certain behaviors that will produce a euphoric feelings state.

neuroscience has shown that all addictions both drug and natural are caused by a deficit of dopamine in the reward system.

brain can heal itself.




 wake up early in the morning before sun rise and talk morning walk in cold morning breeze that’s good for recovery 

100% tested..


  1. if one has deep desire to change it is not only possible but probable .
  2. it is needed proper therapy to heal this .
  3. porn addiction is a disorder of pathological decision making to get rid off from this always happy and believe in other good work
  4. strengthening pre-frontal cortex to mange it more effectively .


crime like spying , peeping , touching ,teasing ,molesting ,lie, multiple relationship is just few its only becuse of urge for more porn and satisfication it lead the victim to criminal…



sexual addiction is described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts


sex addicts as per study can involve in illegal activities such as voyeurism , exhibitionism , obscene phone calls

child molestation and rape.

consequences of sexual addiction may he devastating to not only the addict but also those close to him /her.

it can leave an addict isolated, immensely anxious , depressed , low esteem , hopeless , shame and despair.




if your sexual behaviour is exhausting your time and energy and it causes you to compromise your core vaules

and the beliefs that you hold dear to your heart then there is cause for alaram.

aphrodisiac food— stimulates sexual desire.

thyroid hormones and sexual hormones have high risk and faces lot of problems.

estrogen and progesterone are common female sexual hormones.

testosterone and androgen are male hoormones.


  1. asparagus
  2. saffron flowers
  3. strawberries
  4. drumstick
  5. red chilies
  6. almond
  7. onion
  8. garlic
  9. mango
  10. amla
  11. aloevera
  12. cheese & cow ghee only
  13. banana
  14. orange
  15. apple
  16. figs
  17. Pomegranate


feels desire to look at it again when he sees a sex scene in  a film.something as plain as a TV ad or a magazine

at the grocery store can lit off the triggers to look again. so how does one know  to cure porn?

narrow line that for too many men walk of mitigating their behavior.

getting over  porn is not as easy as saying that he no longer looks at nude pictures for the reason that

a swimsuit ads can trigger the same chemicals in the brain as porn.

they (addict) lie to themselves about what they are doing?

will power the only hope for recovery.

a problem cannot solved by the same mind that created it.

dopa-mine increased mental alertness and awareness.

dr fisher said ” male college students think just as much about food and sleep as they do about sex.”


limbic circuits control almost all bodily functions.

the lim bic systems job is to keep you alive and reproducing .

it does this by avoiding pain and repeating what is pleasurable.

its where you fall in and out of love, or lust.

your world revolves around dopamine neurochemical player behind  falling in and out of love is dopamine.

dopamine nearly drives all your behaviors.

the more dopamine you release and the more your reward circuit is activated the more you want or crave something

dopamine is like the booster which make us go after the goal ..so its our responsibility to use the good way.


food and sex are known as ” natural reinforce rs “. they aren’t drugs b ut our brains light up for them so we reach

for more without thinking.

pornography can steal our attention from soothing connections with real people, but also hook us. heavy porn use sometimes discourages the user’s pursuit of friendly interaction with others.

your vision for real world change

struggling with real girl

performance on bed goes down

tastes shifted time to time.

wicked thought make mind wandering

the more you scratch the more itch

be safe after watching porn you really not trust ful with real girls







Justin Bieber (Biography)

Justin Bieber is a Canadian pop star who was discovered via YouTube. His debut album, My World, went platinum in the United States, Canada and the United Kingdom.



Born in 1994 in Stratford, Ontario, Canada, to a single mother, Justin Bieber took second place in a local talent competition at a young age and later turned into a YouTube phenomenon. He signed a record contract with Usher and became the first solo artist to have four singles enter the Top 40 before the release of a debut album. His record “My World” has gone platinum in several countries. He lives and works in Atlanta.


Born on March 1, 1994, in Stratford, Ontario, Canada, Justin Bieber was raised by a single mom in the small town of Stratford. Bieber, whose debut album, My World, hit stores in November 2009, is a true overnight success, having gone from an unknown, untrained singer whose mother posted YouTube clips of her boy performing, to a budding superstar with a big-time record deal, all in just two years.

Bieber always had an interest in music. His mother gave him a drum kit for his second birthday and, as he tells it, he was “basically banging on everything I could get my hands on.”

But it was an obscure talent contest in his hometown, in which the 12-year-old Bieber finished second that put him on the road to superstardom. As a way to share his singing with family, Justin and his mom began posting clips of Bieber performing covers of Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson and Ne-Yo on YouTube.

Within months, Justin was an Internet sensation, with a large following of fans, and an eager manager arranging for the teenager to fly to Atlanta to consider a record deal. There, Bieber had a chance meeting with Usher, who eventually signed the young singer to a contract.

Career Highlights

Bieber’s first single, “One Time,” went certified platinum in his native Canada shortly after its release in May 2009. His album My World matched that success, selling more than 137,000 copies within a week of hitting stores. Bieber broke into the Billboard Top 10 in early 2010 with “Baby,” which also featured Ludcris. Bieber soon released My World 2.0 (2010), which offered his growing fan base ten new songs.

In 2011, Bieber took to the big screen in the concert documentary Never Say Never. His fans crowded movie theaters to catch him in action on stage and get a glimpse of his life behind the scenes. The movie, which eventually earned more than $73 million at the box office, also had guest appearances by Kanye West, Miley Cyrus and Bieber’s musical mentor Usher. That same year, Bieber released an album featuring his own take on such holiday classics as “All I Want For Christmas Is,” his duet with Mariah Carey.

Bieber had his biggest hit single to date in April 2012 with “Boyfriend.” The song appears on his latest album Believe released in June.

Tarnished Image

While still only in his teens, Bieber has survived his first public scandal. A woman filed suit against Bieber in 2011, claiming that he was the father of her child. But a DNA test proved that the young pop star was not the father and the woman dropped her lawsuit. Bieber sang about the scandal in the song “Maria.”

That was only the beginning of a string of scandals, bad behavior and unfavorable press for the young pop artist. In March 2013, Bieber’s neighbor accused the singer of spitting on him in addition to threatening him. Two months later, members of Bieber’s neighborhood in Calabasas, California, complained about that he was driving too fast in a residential area. The charges against Bieber in both instances were declined.

On April 15, 2013, Bieber visited a museum in Amsterdam that paid tribute to  Anne Frank. Upon writing that the young journalist “would have been a Belieber,” he faced more backlash from the public. On July 9, 2013, his image was scrutinized once again after he was recorded urinating in a janitor’s bucket and yelling “F— Bill Clinton,” holding a photo of the former president. Although he later apologized, his previously squeaky clean image began to tarnish even more.

On January 14, 2014, Bieber’s home in California was searched after he was accused of egging a neighbor’s house. Nine days later, Bieber was arrested for suspicion of drag racing and driving under the influence. After a Breathalyzer test showed that Bieber wasn’t sober, he was taken into custody where he stayed until he posted bail, which was set at $2,500.

Personal Life

Teen idol Justin Bieber broke the hearts of many of his young female fans in 2010 when he started dating television actress and singer Selena Gomez. It hasn’t been easy for Gomez to be Bieber’s girlfriend. She has been accosted by some of his devoted followers. There were even death threats against her posted on Twitter after the pair was photographed kissing while on vacation in 2011. The couple ended their relationship in November 2012.

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SBI SO recruitment 2015 apply online sbi.co.in

SBI Specialist Officer Notification 2015 was released. Interested and eligible candidates can apply for SBI SO recruitment 2015. Candidates should visit the official sitehttp://www.sbi.co.in to apply online for 96 vacancies of Specialist Officer Posts from 08th April 2015.

Are you searching for latest SBI vacancies? Are you waiting for SBI Specialist officer recruitment? Here is the latest news related to SBI recruitment. State Bank of Indiais the largest Public Sector Banking and Financial Services Company in Indian multinational. SBI also having five associates Banks like SBH, SBBJ, SBT, SBM and SBP. Every year it involves in many recruitments for the Clerk, PO and SO vacancies in itself and its associates. Recently, it has completed the Clerk recruitment for its associates. Now it has came with the new SBI SO recruitment 2015. Bank is going to recruit the eligible candidates for the 96 vacancies of Specialist Officer posts in SBI banks. Interested candidates can apply for SBI SO recruitment through official site http://www.sbi.co.in from 08th April 2015 onwards. The last date to apply online is 27thApril 2015.

Candidates who are waiting for the latest bank jobs in India, it is good news for you all that State Bank of India is going to recruit the candidates for Specialist Officer posts through SBI OS recruitment like Deputy Manager, Assistant manager and Manager. Candidates should have Post graduation or Graduation in Engineering or MBA/MBBS to apply for the SBI vacancies. Different posts having different age limits refer the official SBI Specialist Officer Notification 2015 for detailed information. Candidates should have to pay the application fee either through Online or Offline for this SBI So recruitment 2015. The complete details are given below.

Name of the Organization: State bank of India

Official Site: http://www.sbi.co.in

Job Role: Specialist Officer

Vacancies: 96 posts

Job Category: Central Government

Job Location:  India

Post wise Vacancies:

Sl. No. Name Of Posts No. Of Posts Age Limit
01 Chief Medical Officer Post Code:CMOF 01 45 Years
02 Chief Manager (Economist)Post Code:CMEC 01 35 Years
03 Manager (Chartered Accountant) Post Code :M G C A 02 38 Years
04 Manager (Official Language) Post Code :M G O L 03 35 Years
05 Deputy Manager(Security) Post Code:D M S E 14 35 Years
06 Deputy Manager (Law) Post Code:D M L A 04 35 Years
07 Deputy Manager (Civil Engg.)Post Code:D M C E 05 35 Years
08 Deputy Manager(Electrical Engg.) Post Code:D M E E 03 33 Years
09 Deputy Manager (Fire,)Post Code:D M F S 01 35 Years
10 Asst. Manager System) Post Code:A M S Y 20 30 years
11 Asst. Manager Civil Engg.) Post Code:AMCE 19 30 years
12 Asst. Manager Electrical Engg.) Post Code:AMEE 09 30 years
13 Asst. Manager Chartered Accountant) Post Code:AMCA 14 35 Years

Eligibility Criteria

Education Qualification: Candidates should have MBBS/MBA//post graduation/Engineering degree in relevant discipline from recognized University along with the post experience.

Selection Process: Candidates will be selected based on the written test and intreview

Application Fee:

For SC/ST/PWD : Rs. 100/-

For others: Rs. 600/-

How To Apply:

  • Log on to sbi.co.in
  • Click on career with us
  • Click on apply online
  • Fill the application form
  • Pay the fee through Online
  • Submit the application form
  • Download and print the application

Important Dates:

Online application starts from: 08.04.2015

Last date of submission of application: 27.04.2015

Date of recruitment test: 14.06.2015

SBI SO Notification 2015

SBI recruitment apply online