Nobody desires trouble in life, but everyone has some or the other problem to deal with. These troubles create a mental unease.
For sure our emotions guide us. To which path they lead; depends on the situation as well as on the nature of emotion itself. In other words it can be said that emotions interfere with our way of thinking either in positive or in negative manner.
To deal with any problem you will require eliminating the mental unease and get yourself into a calm & relaxed state of mind. Bigger the problem, greater will be the pain. Greater the pain, more important it becomes to think positive and to stay calm.
Yes! Positive thoughts can be of great help in eliminating the mental pain. This is the reason why every motivational speaker talks about ‘Positive Attitude’ from time to time.
Be Realistic and Be Rational:
When figuring out a solution, you must do it without or with minimal emotional interference. Just be rational!
This approach helps you in identifying “what’s really important?” and “what the reality is?”. On the other hand a person under influence of his emotions might overlook something important. A man must be smart enough to differentiate between emotional guidance and emotional interference.
Chanakya said ” दुःसाध्यमपि सुसाधयं करोत्युपायज्ञाः ” i.e. “One who knows the solution turns difficult into easy”. It’s time!